The Truth About Solo Travel
As a travel and lifestyle journalist, I have had countless opportunities to travel to some beautiful destinations. Sometimes, I’m alone, other times I’m with other journalists. However, when I go back to my hotel room, I’m reminded that I’m alone.
I’ve only had one trip where I had a plus one, but more often than not, I travel to these places alone. While I do take advantage of the perks, because let’s be clear I’m not letting loneliness keep me from a free trip, I do sometimes wish there was a partner by my side. I’ve been single for years and have focused on accomplishing my many goals. However, my goal of finding love keeps slipping away.
For the most part, I love my life and I enjoy my own company. I’m also yearning for the experience of exploring the world with a lover. When I go on solo trips, I usually find myself thinking this would be even better if I was with “my man.” These thoughts come and go, but it’s pretty consistent with every trip.
I know I’m not alone in feeling this way. Tracee Ellis Ross even touched on this on her show, Solo Traveling with Tracee Ellis Ross. She described the loneliness feeling as a “human experience” rather than a failure and she’s right.
I experience many emotions every day and it’s no different when I’m traveling. Granted, traveling allows you to reflect and discover yourself, so emotions may be more heightened.
While I may still feel moments of loneliness on my solo travels, I know that it’s just a part of the journey. If you have moments of loneliness while traveling, here’s some things to remember:
Feel the emotions
It’s okay to feel these emotions. It’s pretty normal, so don’t beat yourself up about it. Sit with the emotions or journal about them. Either way, don’t let it ruin your trip.
Embrace solo traveling
Don’t let the idea of solo traveling keep you from exploring the world. This experience is for you and you shouldn’t take it for granted. You may meet someone during your travels or you may not. If you don’t, you have tons of stories to share when you do meet someone.
Book the trip for yourself
Don’t book a trip because you think you may meet someone. You may be disappointed.
Enjoy your solocation
Last, but not least. Have a great time. Fill up your itinerary and be sure to stay safe. There’s so many benefits of solo traveling, and feeling sorry for yourself isn’t one of them.
